“Wait” is only a simple four-letter word, yet there are things with longer words that are way more fun to be involved in. Like “celebrate,” for example.
We’ll all rather celebrate having what we are waiting for, than wait for it. That’s more fun.
Waiting’s not always fun. Waiting can be hard, sometimes, frustrating.
We want what we want and we want it right away.
But sometimes, God makes us wait. Like Abraham, Joseph, David, Lazarus’ sisters…
It’s like He says, “I hear you, but first, wait.”
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You planned to be married by 25, that was 7 years ago.
“Someone must not have taken your order correctly,” because instead of being a bride yourself, you’ve always been a bridesmaid. All your friends are married.
People keep asking you the question you wish you could answer for yourself – when will you get married?
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“Timing is the Father’s business”, the bible says (Acts 1:7); trusting the Father is ours.
Let God do His thing, let Him perfect that which concerns you.
It’s not late, it’s just been planned for later.
Worrying about “when” will not make God hurry, it will only make us, well, worried. Trusting God, on the other hand -as our source- gives us rest because we know that He gives only good gifts to His children and no good thing will He withhold from them.
So, if singleness is His gift to us in this season of our lives, then we must trust that it’s for our good and for His glory; and learn to enjoy it while it lasts.
And can I tell you? If you’ve chosen to wait on God – doing what He says, how He says and when He says – even though you’d rather have it right away, I’m sure He’s proud of you. He’s probably looking down at you saying, “I’m pleased that she’s choosing to do things My way.”
Choosing to do things God’s way, may mean that you don’t get what you want right away, but it’s the right way.
Knowing that God is pleased with you should keep going, let His joy be your strength. Resolve to do things God’s way, no matter how long it takes; it pays in the long run.
When it gets hard, like it does sometimes, remember;
- Who you are waiting on – God.
- That He who has promised is faithful. (Hebrews 10:23)
- It’s good to wait on God. (Lamentations 3:26)
- You’re not wasting time, God is working. (Isaiah 64:4)
- God is good to those who wait for Him. (Lamentations 3:25)
- His grace is available and sufficient. (2 Corinthians 12:9)
- You won’t regret waiting on Him. (Isaiah 49:23b)
The weight of what’s coming is worth the wait.
I pray you never have to say, “I wish I’d waited”, because you know what, waiting may be hard but wishing you waited is harder.
Be encouraged.